This question makes me laugh like every single time.
I don't really know what to say about this haha
Are you still straight?
I didn't say I was gay yesterday or a few weeks before so I could somehow revert back to being "straight" if ever I was straight. xD
It's stuff like this that kinda made me nervous about coming out.
Like, what if I decided to be straight again (as if that would work) or what if I fell in love with a guy?
People would think I bluffed being gay or something.
But the thing is, when i say I am gay, I am a girl who is attracted to girls.
I dream of having a girlfriend, and I want to marry her and have kids and lead a nice life. I find girls more attractive than guys but I can appreciate guys. But my main attraction is for girls.
But what if i fell in love with a guy? Then that would be completely okay because love is free and the heart moves in mysterious ways xD
(DISCLAIMER: I am not in love with any guy as of the moment and I still want to be with a girl xD)
What was i saying?
Well, like Allison and Gaby from Just Between Us said, you don't have to have a label. It's alright if you want one though.
Also, if you're gay and you're nervous about stuff like this, don't be. It's not really worth it, y'know.
If guys ask you why you, as a girl, likes girls you should reply with something like:
"You should know! You like girls too!!!" Or something xD
Like it aint their business so why should they care? Also, their opinion won't change the fact that you are gay and like whoever you like. They can't choose who you are going to end up with or love so don't be afraid to love who you are and the people you choose to love.
Love in all of its forms, is a beautiful thing. Love is not wrong. Love is free.
Love is different for everybody so we should stop trying to have others conform to our own ways.
To each their own ;)
LOVE WHO YOU LOVE~!!!
Here take this messy heart by MAMAMOO. As messy as all the ships in their group xD But still very lovable hahahA!
I love this post soo much! Makes me inspired to stay true to who I am! Thank's for writing this. Now I feel like writing something that goes along this topic as well! :D
ReplyDeleteI hope you write it soon coz I wanna read your thoughts about something like this as well haha
DeleteThanks and I'm glad it inspired you :))